Note: This is in response to a client. We all as mothers need to forgive ourselves. Forgiveness is a process. It can take time. Guilt does make you punish yourself, stop you from receiving the love you have for your daughter and she has for you. You are not perfect and everyone makes mistakes, that [...]

Change is a detox. A detox from crazy-makers in our lives, crazy-making behavior, crazy-making jobs, crazy-making schedules. We need to simplify everything. We need to slow down in order to examine what is really going on inside of us and our lives. Then we can begin to experience ourselves. Then we can really feel what [...]

Here is how the cosmic mind works: Law of Attraction: Our beliefs are created from emotional experiences, pleasant or unpleasant. Emotions that are held energetically in our bodies, conscious or unconscious, attract people, experiences and situations that reflect who we are and what we actually believe, not what we say we believe. This Law can [...]

As human beings we believe in LACK. It started a long time ago in a place called “The Garden.” Lack is the belief that you are never enough. Usually we do not admit to the feelings caused by lack. As humans we are taught that they are “bad” feelings. So we hide, repress and deny [...]

Being deep on a spiritual path is entering into the moment of the unknown. I don’t know why many things happen in the way they do. We don’t have a blueprint to life, only a road to follow. I believe our spiritual path is very personal. Being here at this time, on this planet, is [...]

A mystery. A pain of heartbreak My heart has been shredded, torn, abandoned How do I give my heart back to myself? So many telling me who my heart is, and what it should do and feel But my heart is broken. I don’t know how to give back a broken heart. In tiny shattered [...]

Marta Luzim trained in an intimacy process with Doug and Naomi Moseley: The Moseley Method…read their book The Shadow Side of Intimate Relationships, available through Amazon. IntimacyTraining.com Feelings are a tricky deal. Many times we THINK we are feeling but we are in a story or description outside of our own true experience. Clients I’ve [...]

Universal Laws In doing our deeper soul work, each individual needs to understand their unique family history and personal psychological dynamics that cause them to develop their personalities. However, the personality self we have developed can limit our human potential and squash our spiritual longing if we are wounded in childhood – We are all [...]

“If you get over the value judgments you can listen to what it is you need to do without getting caught in all of the social pressures about marriage or no-marriage. The true marriage is with God. The reason you form a conscious marriage on the physical plane with a partner is in order to [...]

Wishy Washy Boundaries: Click here for my Video Most people have tremendous difficulties in setting boundaries. The reason being is that they don’t really know what they feel, want and need, so they collapse or attack rather than express their truth. How does one know what is a healthy boundary? How does one know what [...]